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I've had experience in this. The ex cheated and I found out. He was screwing his way up and down the Northeast Corridor. He went into the whole pleading and crying for a second chance. Said it'll never happen again. Guess what? 2 months later, he butt dialed me going to his side piece's condo and I heard everything. So no---I learned that lesson the hard way---don't give liars/cheaters a second chance to punk you because they will. Me taking him back told him there were no serious consequences for him to fear enough to change his tack.

Sunsite

is it sad that i think that would have actually led to more success in this world? lol seems like douchbags rule the world with women and with finances.

Yicheng

She must have a backside pic

Belard

Originally Posted by rkc2

Tropical

I've had a few first dates where I paid and there wasn't a second date. I haven't head from any of the dates offering to pay me half, and if I did I would find it a bit weird.

Lavage

I'm really glad I found this place, you seem to be a sane bunch of people. In June I met a man online, we have become very close, talking for hours daily on the phone and many emails. We are 150 miles apart and have seen each other 6 times on weekends. We are serious enough to be discussing a future together. We're compatible in many areas. I've been divorced for 10 years, his wife of 30 years left him last Feb., he has filed for divorce and it should be finalized next Feb. There are two serious issues in the way - one is that I'm a city person and he's a country person. I may be able to adapt to country living but I need to spend some time in the country before I know how I feel about that. Which brings me to the other issue, which is driving me crazy, and has almost caused me to end the relationship a few times. He has 3 daughters, 26, 22, and 18, all very opposed to me, because it's "too soon". He's only started talking about the divorce since July and they are shaken up about it, so I'm somewhat "the bad guy" although I don't know what they all thought would happen when their Mom left. She is saying that she was willing to work on the marriage (not according to the counsellor last June- she said there was no hope). He is dead scared of "losing" his daughters, also scared that they will tell their Mom about me and she will get pissed off and take vengeance on him financially (no boyfriend in the picture). He's afraid of losing his shirt. So I have agreed to keep a low profile until after the divorce. He says at that point he will insist that his daughters meet me and at least be civil to me. The biggest thorn in my side is his youngest daughter Amy. When his wife left, it was just Murray and Amy in the house and she is a classic Daddy's girl. They would cuddle on the couch watching TV. She would make him watch her play computer games and bake muffins. Never had a boyfriend although she looks attractive in her pictures. She would usually stay home on the weekends. Now she's away at University in the same city as me, he thought we would have some freedom because he's alone now. No way!! I visited him once on the farm, she found out and had a hysterical fit and her sisters backed her up. She demanded that he break up with me, and he's been a nervous wreck ever since (so have I). He can't break up with me, he says he can't live without me but he can't live with the stress either. He has stopped telling me that he loves me, but I know that, if anything, his love is growing. He saw me last weekend because I told him that I was just missing him too much, I needed to see him. He ended up spending six hours with Amy and had a meltdown with her because her Mom was playing mind-games. He feels SO guilty to be putting the kid through the emotional trauma of a divorce and the mother is kind of emotionally abusive (she used to hit the kids too). And on top of it, she's really homesick and going through culture shock too (a country kid in the city). Anyway, when Murray said good-bye to me, he had another major melt-down. He feels so torn between his kids and me, but his loyalty is definitely to his family and I'm last on his list of priorities, he's made that quite clear, especially now, he says he needs to make sure Amy's firmly made the transition to university and needs his 100% support. I admire him for being a good father, but I'm just getting vibes that the father-daughter attachment here is just a little bit over-the-top, and that this girl is ferociously jealous of me, and knows exactly which buttons to push. I can't see her magically accepting me next Feb. and releasing him from all his guilt. There was a huge emotional void in her parents' marriage as it was, and once Mom moved out, Amy became the only woman in her Dad's life. I don't think she's about to give up that position. And I've noticed that every time I mention anything to do with boys and Amy, he doesn't seem to be open to that topic at all. When I mentioned to him that I think Amy simply doesn't want to share her Dad with me, you know what he told me? That she sends him text messages on his cell phone - just three words - "I love you". And as he was telling me this, he was choking back the tears. Well, that just felt like more than I could handle. Well? Help me out here. Am I over-reacting? Sorry this is so long but I haven't discussed it with anyone other than my Mom and it feels really good to get it off my chest. I really care for this guy but he may as well be married and I may as well be the other woman for all the sneaking around I'm doing and the shame and guilt I'm being made to feel! She and/or the other daughters go home for the weekends and I'm not even supposed to call when they are around, and if they walk in when he's on the phone to me, he will just abruptly hang up the phone on me. I've never been involved with a married man before, and he's legally separated, but I feel like he's got three jealous wives watching over him!!! Okay, this is turning into a rant, I'll take a deep breath and stop now. Thanks to all who have listened.

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Squeezes

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Gorecki

Where is he sleeping? With you?

Wro

hope to hear from you, it sounds like your girlfriend could be someone i could talk to.

Taverna

I am a single,working mother.I enjoy the simples of life .I have lived here in the rogue valley for about 9 years.I am a giver in a relationship and i would like to find another a giver .I have been.

Smallpox

thanks for the second opinion, i was worried about the boobs.

Skirr

The middle girl is a real cutie--great smile.

Kimbra

So what you meant was you do indeed wish you had married your stalker ex, but only at age 25 before you realized who he really was. Oookay.